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Your body REQUIRES your attention in order to give you the feedback and 'goodies' IT has to offer you! 

That's the deal.

And so, likewise, with the man or woman that you are in contact with - should they have something useful and good to offer you they MUST have your attention, through which they can communicate it.

The attention, to be clean and clear, must be non-judgemental, as non-judgemental as a mother to her infant.

All judgement/criticism is suspended - an attention of interest and sensitivity. 
The baby communicates intuitively, a more developed and understanding man or woman may do that even more directly and consciously!

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